Irritated (This Time It's Not PMS)
Two pet peeves bountifully exemplified by two different people:
1. When people aren't just straight up with each other. Don't fuck around with someone, don't do stupid things to avoid them or the problem or say stupid things to cover up what you really mean, just TELL them what the problem is that you have and WORK IT OUT with them. If you don't have time to talk to someone or if they irritate you JUST TELL THEM! Aka. tell the person what your problem is instead of blocking them for 3 weeks without a word. :)
2. When someone acts in a way that destroys someone who they claim to care about. When someone can selfishly ignore the feelings of someone else because things are the best for THEM that way and still claim that what they are doing is what's the most beneficial to both. Rings a bell doesn't it? We've seen this before haven't we? What bullshit, I didn't expect this from you.
Unfortunately neither of these people read this blog. :)
While we're at it, another huge pet peeve is when people say something vague to you which CLEARLY means they want you to ask them about it.. JUST SAY WHAT IT IS THAT YOU WANT TO SAY! Sure, people might get tired of you talking about yourself a lot but its a HELL of a lot less annoying than when you tug at my sleeve so I'll ask you.
Actually, the term "pet peeve" is a pet peeve of mine. What idiot came up with that?


5 Comments:
A delightful little rant, Jenny my dear, and one that could not have been more true. It's a shame I don't really have any idea who you are talking about, so I can't offer any real encouragement or sympathy. Hopefully you aren't talking about me, because WOW would that be a nice example of full-blown ironic awkwardness. teehee.
Anyways, here: *hug* hope that helps. .. hope you are feeling better soon.
I agree that "pet peeve" is kind of annoying, but clich?s and overused terms are appropriate dismayingly often.
Sory for the long comment.
6:23 PM
I spelled "sorry" wrong. How embarassing.
6:25 PM
Long comments from you especially are more than welcome my dear! And thank you for it :)
As I write this comment yet another person gives me cause to rant and possibly have a stroke but, not you of course lol
7:45 PM
Unfortunately I tend to do the third every now and then.
Note to self: think carefully before speaking.
12:04 AM
I know, and I always NAIL you for it :P haha sorry about that.. lol
12:20 AM
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